These people believe that if they do not even know the real name of their cybermate—and never actually see them—their affair cannot be regarded as from a moral point of view; it's no different from reading a novel or other form of entertainment.
It bothered me because I didn’t really know, but I got over it and let it go.
That it’s not just for long-distance relationships, but also a great way to ease into a sexual connection with someone you’re still getting to know. She’s laying back in her PJs, maybe sipping some wine, and usually somewhere private. Of course, you can have phone sex during the day if you’ve been dating for a while. You want to genuinely enjoy getting to know her and deepening the connection. You can’t expect her to dirty talk with you if she doesn’t feel secure with you. For her to consider having sexy talk with you, she needs to feel attraction towards you. If she hesitates or acts indifferent, continue talking for a couple of minutes and then try again.
If that’s too much work for you, then please continue Snapchatting girls pictures of your junk. Remember, you aren’t going to lead it to phone sex by acting like a platonic friend. She’ll feel safe, comfortable, and turned on like hell – a winning combination.
Try to minimize any extreme variances in loudness or speed.
Imagine how you’d speak if you were comforting her from a headache.